http://videos.onsmash.com/v/2eQVqjgbcSD9sp6K
" May the best of your today's be the worse of your tomorrow's
-- S. Carter
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Say what's R E A L
" Don't Listen to anybody that claim they know you cuz to have known me would
mean there's a new me if u think i changed then the slightest could of fooled
me"
--Drizzy
Every time your on the road to success you always get hit by the haters "oh, you're changing" or "you're too Hollywood now" Just reply, "then I guess you didn't know the R E A L me," shade much I know.
xoxo. A
Saturday, December 19, 2009
Get on the Grind like "Blok Work"
Hey guys, I'm back to check in and let you know whats hot in my life. Recently, I've been working on this major project for an underground Hip-Hop artist named, Fred The GodSon. Fred is a rapper, born and raised in the home of the "Bronx Bombers," Bronx, N.Y. He has proclaimed himself "Big Bronx," and delivers a lyrical flow that Jay-Z once quoted as, "The Future." Fred has featured in major magazines such as, XXL and Slate as well as, underground Hip-Hop DVDs such as, "Hood Life Cypher." He recently appeared on "D.W.I Radio," an online radio show that features, unsigned artist.
I met Fred at a recording studio called Blok Work Studio. I was introduced to him by a College friend, along with studio owners, Dre and Zo, who are twins.Dre and Zo, also from the Bronx, had a vision to invest their savings into something they believe in, music and Fred. They believe that Fred has the ability to be next in Hip-Hop and they support his craft.
When I heard their story, which I dubbed "the modern day," Jay, Dame, and Kareem story, minus the back stabbing and bullshit; I was impressed. However, when I heard Fred rap, I was "amazed." His ability to use metaphors and unique hand movement, in addition to his charming demeanor reminds me of, "Big." He has a "BIG" character, that works with his skill.
I am excited about this project, it consist of 2 things that I love, Hip-Hop and public relations. I've always had a ear and love for Hip-Hop. I have a excellent team at Blok Work, the talent and energy in the studio is amazing. This project has opened many doors for me and I've had the opportunity to network with beneficial individuals. My lifestyle has drastically change and my days/nights can be long and interesting. Everyday opens a different door with a better opportunity. I believe in my clients and I believe in my craft. Look out for Fred The GodSon and Blok Work, they're hot, i'm their PR person and we're wining!
Stay Tuned for my next entry, "Dairy of an Underground Publicist."
Thanks, for rocking with ya girl.
Best,
A.
"Real Life Sh*t; No Pop-Culture Fluff."
Wednesday, December 02, 2009
Respect The Grind
As I'm sitting here beginning to work on a PR Plan for my new client, I remembered that I made a commitment to blog. Sorry guys, I have been extremely busy in pursuit of my PR career. Success is looking up and I am grateful, I'm a unstoppable force. I entitled this post "Respect the Grind," because it pertains to self-realization and sacrifices, in success, that I am experiencing on my "Success Journey."
Recently my significant other and I separated for various reasons. One of the reasons being, the ability to love and focus on the growth and development of self. Due to his ambition and urgency for success, my Man dedicated himself to his goals and neglected our commitment. He explained to me that he before he could give himself to anyone, he had to focus on self and achieving his goal. For him those things required sacrifice and selfishness. At the moment, I could not understand why he wasn't able to put an equal amount of energy into two things that he loved; His success and I. I thought about it and spoke out loud about him not loving me and not loving me enough and that contributed to our break up.
I thought he was being selfish, until recently when people in my life, called me selfish because lately, I've dedicated all my time to my Public Relations career. Now I understand, in order to achieve self goals , you must exhaust yourself in accomplishing those goals, by any means necessary. I didn't respect his grind because I did not understand, nor could I relate; I was being selfish.
In the end, I applied that same selfishness in pursuing my PR career. I revised this quote from Jay-Z song,"The Prelude," "I have this fantasy of putting the PR industry on it's ears, what the f**K else am I suppose to do except hustle." Public Relations is my hustle, I did it the American dream way, graduated from College, learned creative skills, and now I'm contributing my creativity to the world. It's a beautiful thing to know that you serve a purpose.
Great things are happening, fast and I am meeting great contacts, building my brand; Myself. I've allowed social media to serve it's purpose and utilize it, for networking and the results are amazing. I am realizing that success requires sacrifice, that's a big beneficial pill to swallow. Success also requires, "tunnel vision" and sometimes alteration of your peers and habits. This is my commitment to myself; There'll be no break-up. It wasn't until the break up, that I realized I had not vested all my time and energy into myself and my career; Now I'm "full-throttle," and there's no turning back. If no one is, I'm amazed with my craft and believe it will be the reason for my success. I will be 'Next in PR," it may happen over night, anything is possible when you believe and when it does, remember I told you so.
Respect The Grind.
Peace,
A.
Recently my significant other and I separated for various reasons. One of the reasons being, the ability to love and focus on the growth and development of self. Due to his ambition and urgency for success, my Man dedicated himself to his goals and neglected our commitment. He explained to me that he before he could give himself to anyone, he had to focus on self and achieving his goal. For him those things required sacrifice and selfishness. At the moment, I could not understand why he wasn't able to put an equal amount of energy into two things that he loved; His success and I. I thought about it and spoke out loud about him not loving me and not loving me enough and that contributed to our break up.
I thought he was being selfish, until recently when people in my life, called me selfish because lately, I've dedicated all my time to my Public Relations career. Now I understand, in order to achieve self goals , you must exhaust yourself in accomplishing those goals, by any means necessary. I didn't respect his grind because I did not understand, nor could I relate; I was being selfish.
In the end, I applied that same selfishness in pursuing my PR career. I revised this quote from Jay-Z song,"The Prelude," "I have this fantasy of putting the PR industry on it's ears, what the f**K else am I suppose to do except hustle." Public Relations is my hustle, I did it the American dream way, graduated from College, learned creative skills, and now I'm contributing my creativity to the world. It's a beautiful thing to know that you serve a purpose.
Great things are happening, fast and I am meeting great contacts, building my brand; Myself. I've allowed social media to serve it's purpose and utilize it, for networking and the results are amazing. I am realizing that success requires sacrifice, that's a big beneficial pill to swallow. Success also requires, "tunnel vision" and sometimes alteration of your peers and habits. This is my commitment to myself; There'll be no break-up. It wasn't until the break up, that I realized I had not vested all my time and energy into myself and my career; Now I'm "full-throttle," and there's no turning back. If no one is, I'm amazed with my craft and believe it will be the reason for my success. I will be 'Next in PR," it may happen over night, anything is possible when you believe and when it does, remember I told you so.
Respect The Grind.
Peace,
A.
Saturday, November 14, 2009
The "Questan's" Experience
Hello Beautiful! I apologize for the delay in posting. I have been extremely busy, my PR career is picking up and doing well. I'm excited about applying my talent to the real world, it gives me a reason not to default my student loans. *Lol.*
One of the projects that I am working on, requires me to visit various Venues for events which, has been awesome because I get to meet different people and get a sense of what the Venue has to offer. Recently, a friend and I checked out this place called, "Questans," located on 114th and 8th Avenue in Harlem, New York. Questans, is a small lounge/restaurant and get this; it's next door to a corner store. I wouldn't expect to see a lounge next door to a corner store. It was a convenience store that sold everything from toilet tissue, hair gel, flour, white T-shirts, umbrella's, boxers, candles; this store literally had everything.
Once inside, the music was loud and the basketball game was playing on the flat screen televisions hanging on the wall. The music was so loud, that you could not hear yourself think. It was a urban scene, with fitted caps, baggy jeans, Ugg boots and Louis Vuitton bags. It's small inside with a long couch against the wall with tables and chairs. The bar is small and has about 10-12 chairs. When we sat at our table, it was dirty and the waitress had no interest in cleaning it. The Women at the front door walked passed and noticed that the table was dirty; she sprayed it with "Fabulouso," all purpose spray and wiped it with a paper towel.
My friend and I ordered Patron Margarita's, which were only 5 bucks. The waitress brought the drinks back to us in plastic cups. Correct me if I'm wrong, but a Margarita in a plastic cup at lounge ? I said to the Waitress, "excuse me, is it possible that I can have a glass ?" She looked at me with this annoyed facial expression and said, "We don't have any." How could a lounge not have glasses ? I think that's tacky, but the drinks were good.
For dinner my friend ordered Buffalo wings and I ordered clams. I obviously forgot where I was because I ordered clams at a lounge, that serves drinks in plastic cups. When the food arrived, the clams were as big, as rocks. I almost vomited looking at them, I am not a fan of over-sized clams. After I ate the first one, I told the Waitress that I did not want them. My friend told that they were famous for their fried shrimps, I ordered them and was pleased. They were actually really good and well-seasoned.
Although the Waitress was annoyed with us, she did not put the clams on the check. On a scale of 1 to ten, Questans gets a 6 1/2. I liked the chic decor, good food/drinks, good music, but the customer service was average, the drinks were served in plastic cups, and they cleaned the table with Fabulouso while we sat at the table. I guess they tried, I'll order their fried shrimp for take-out and have a Margarita at home, in a glass with salt on the rim.
Peace,
A.
One of the projects that I am working on, requires me to visit various Venues for events which, has been awesome because I get to meet different people and get a sense of what the Venue has to offer. Recently, a friend and I checked out this place called, "Questans," located on 114th and 8th Avenue in Harlem, New York. Questans, is a small lounge/restaurant and get this; it's next door to a corner store. I wouldn't expect to see a lounge next door to a corner store. It was a convenience store that sold everything from toilet tissue, hair gel, flour, white T-shirts, umbrella's, boxers, candles; this store literally had everything.
Once inside, the music was loud and the basketball game was playing on the flat screen televisions hanging on the wall. The music was so loud, that you could not hear yourself think. It was a urban scene, with fitted caps, baggy jeans, Ugg boots and Louis Vuitton bags. It's small inside with a long couch against the wall with tables and chairs. The bar is small and has about 10-12 chairs. When we sat at our table, it was dirty and the waitress had no interest in cleaning it. The Women at the front door walked passed and noticed that the table was dirty; she sprayed it with "Fabulouso," all purpose spray and wiped it with a paper towel.
My friend and I ordered Patron Margarita's, which were only 5 bucks. The waitress brought the drinks back to us in plastic cups. Correct me if I'm wrong, but a Margarita in a plastic cup at lounge ? I said to the Waitress, "excuse me, is it possible that I can have a glass ?" She looked at me with this annoyed facial expression and said, "We don't have any." How could a lounge not have glasses ? I think that's tacky, but the drinks were good.
For dinner my friend ordered Buffalo wings and I ordered clams. I obviously forgot where I was because I ordered clams at a lounge, that serves drinks in plastic cups. When the food arrived, the clams were as big, as rocks. I almost vomited looking at them, I am not a fan of over-sized clams. After I ate the first one, I told the Waitress that I did not want them. My friend told that they were famous for their fried shrimps, I ordered them and was pleased. They were actually really good and well-seasoned.
Although the Waitress was annoyed with us, she did not put the clams on the check. On a scale of 1 to ten, Questans gets a 6 1/2. I liked the chic decor, good food/drinks, good music, but the customer service was average, the drinks were served in plastic cups, and they cleaned the table with Fabulouso while we sat at the table. I guess they tried, I'll order their fried shrimp for take-out and have a Margarita at home, in a glass with salt on the rim.
Peace,
A.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
"Extra, Extra, read ALL about it"
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Contact: Ayanna Sanders
Public Relations Specialist
(646) 323-8804
Joe Flow of Guys & Girls features on radio show "Writer's Life Chats"
New York, NY., October 29, 2009 -- Joe Flow, contributing writer and poet for lifestyle group Guys & Girls, will feature on the online radio show "Writer's Life Chats" (www.blogtalkradio.com/writerslifechats) at 8 p.m. Eastern Standard Time. Joe Flow will recite his latest piece, "I am Robot," and discuss future plans for Guys & Girls.
Guys & Girls is scheduled to release the anticipated relationship book "Guys & Girls," written by Jim Hernandez, in the first quarter of 2010. The book and the blog feature testimonies from both Guys and Girls, sharing true-life stories about their relationship experiences.
"What makes 'Guys & Girls' stand out from any other relationship book is, it explores the reasons we're called opposite sexes, offers a step-by-step guide to the dating process, and features views from real Guys and Girls with diverse backgrounds," says Jim Hernandez, creative author of Guys & Girls. "This book is useful for people between the ages of 18-30 because that's the group that dates the most."
You can visit Guys and Girl blog page at www.GuysandGirlsonline.com. The website includes entries from several writers who share real-life relationship experiences. Followers of the website comment and create conversation amongst each other about the featured blog posts; the website is up to 4,000 hits to date.
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Tuesday, October 20, 2009
How to be Your Own Brand
With the Job Market crashed, it's important to be creative and think outside the box. When job hunting, a resume is not enough; you have to Market yourself. During the course of my, "aspiring PR career," I created Tips on "How to be Your Own Brand." These Tips can be useful when job hunting, especially for Freelancers, because you represent yourself.
Know Your Target-Create a list of Companies/Organizations, that you're interested in working for include, their contact information. Be sure to do your research and familiarize yourself with the Company/ Organization.
Create Awareness-Don't be afraid to put yourself out there. Raise awareness about who you are and what you have to offer; pitch yourself. Pitch a letter to a point person at a Company, it seems a aggressive, but some Employers may see your ability to be aggressive, as a plus. Create a Facebook and/or Twitter account or manage a Blog. See my "Blog-Resume," @ www.23PRGrad-Seemyresume.blogspot.com.
Network-Build a list of reliable resources include, their contact information, email, Twitter, Facebook, etc. Using Social Media to network, may seem unconventional, but it can be beneficial in gathering new resources and professional networking.
Gain Creditability-Be professional, perfect your craft, and own it. Leave an everlasting impression on potential clients, that way you build a professional relationship for future projects.
Be Prompt-This Tip applies to everything you do. Whether, it's replying to emails, returning calls, showing up for client events, working on deadline, you must ALWAYS be on point and on time.
Be Confident-People who are strong in message and able to deliver are successful, because their listeners, believe in them and their message. Your objective should be geared to what you have, to offer and how it can benefit a client, Company or Organization.
Know Your Target-Create a list of Companies/Organizations, that you're interested in working for include, their contact information. Be sure to do your research and familiarize yourself with the Company/ Organization.
Create Awareness-Don't be afraid to put yourself out there. Raise awareness about who you are and what you have to offer; pitch yourself. Pitch a letter to a point person at a Company, it seems a aggressive, but some Employers may see your ability to be aggressive, as a plus. Create a Facebook and/or Twitter account or manage a Blog. See my "Blog-Resume," @ www.23PRGrad-Seemyresume.blogspot.com.
Network-Build a list of reliable resources include, their contact information, email, Twitter, Facebook, etc. Using Social Media to network, may seem unconventional, but it can be beneficial in gathering new resources and professional networking.
Gain Creditability-Be professional, perfect your craft, and own it. Leave an everlasting impression on potential clients, that way you build a professional relationship for future projects.
Be Prompt-This Tip applies to everything you do. Whether, it's replying to emails, returning calls, showing up for client events, working on deadline, you must ALWAYS be on point and on time.
Be Confident-People who are strong in message and able to deliver are successful, because their listeners, believe in them and their message. Your objective should be geared to what you have, to offer and how it can benefit a client, Company or Organization.
Lastly, never lose sight of you're dreams; never give up. This is not included in the list of Tips, because it's more of a "Note-to-Self" Tip. Although, we are facing a rough time with the economy and job market, things will take flight again. You want to be a star player, when that time comes.
Follow me on Twitter @ www.Twitter.com/23PRGrad.
Follow me on Twitter @ www.Twitter.com/23PRGrad.
Sunday, October 18, 2009
"The Twenties Travels," Now on Twitter
For Immediate Release
New York, NY-Get the real scoop on "The Twenties Travels," now on Twitter. Follow me @ www.Twitter.com/23PRGrad. Read my tweets and tips on everything from PR to Fashion, find out about upcoming PR mixer events in NYC. Follow me as I, update daily tweets about life as a City girl, in pursuit of being next in PR.
Also see my Resume-Blog @ http://www.23prgrad-seemyresume.Blogspot.com/
New York, NY-Get the real scoop on "The Twenties Travels," now on Twitter. Follow me @ www.Twitter.com/23PRGrad. Read my tweets and tips on everything from PR to Fashion, find out about upcoming PR mixer events in NYC. Follow me as I, update daily tweets about life as a City girl, in pursuit of being next in PR.
Also see my Resume-Blog @ http://www.23prgrad-seemyresume.Blogspot.com/
GREAT READ FOR PR PROFESSIONALS
Lately, I've been pushing my PR career and I purchased this
book at Borders called, "Public Relations for Dummies," Eric Yaverbaum with Bob Bly and IIise Benum. It's a great book for individuals like me, looking to pursue their PR career. It covers everything from, What PR is, How it works, PR Tactics, Handling the Media and Knowing what to do in a PR Crisis.
The book also includes, Ten Steps to Better PR Writing.
1. Organizing
2. Know your Reader
3. Avoid long Sentences
4. Use Short, Simple words
5. Sidestep "Writer's Block
6. Defind the Topic
7. Gather Information
8. Write, and Then Rewrite, Rewrite.
9. Be Consistent.
10.Avoid "Corporatese" (meaning, writing as you were a computer or a corporation instead of a human being).
These are essential tips in being a great PR writer. The book is awesome, I recommend it to all PR professionals, that either has experience in PR or achieving to gain experience. It's definitely going to be one of my resources during the course of my PR career.
Pick it up at Borders for, $14.99. Buy it used on http://www.amazon.com/, for $4.00.
Until next time, remember to hold tight of your dreams and be your own brand.
Peace,
Ayanna
book at Borders called, "Public Relations for Dummies," Eric Yaverbaum with Bob Bly and IIise Benum. It's a great book for individuals like me, looking to pursue their PR career. It covers everything from, What PR is, How it works, PR Tactics, Handling the Media and Knowing what to do in a PR Crisis.
The book also includes, Ten Steps to Better PR Writing.
1. Organizing
2. Know your Reader
3. Avoid long Sentences
4. Use Short, Simple words
5. Sidestep "Writer's Block
6. Defind the Topic
7. Gather Information
8. Write, and Then Rewrite, Rewrite.
9. Be Consistent.
10.Avoid "Corporatese" (meaning, writing as you were a computer or a corporation instead of a human being).
These are essential tips in being a great PR writer. The book is awesome, I recommend it to all PR professionals, that either has experience in PR or achieving to gain experience. It's definitely going to be one of my resources during the course of my PR career.
Pick it up at Borders for, $14.99. Buy it used on http://www.amazon.com/, for $4.00.
Until next time, remember to hold tight of your dreams and be your own brand.
Peace,
Ayanna
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Keep Your Love Locked Down
Hey guys, I've been gone for a while.....so much has happened. I was sick, it was a disaster, but never to worry, I'm back. Unfortunately, it's such a horrible day in New York City, it's raining, it's cold. This is definitely cuddle weather ;) So, if you're in New York or it's raining in your City and you're reading this, take my advice and make sure you cuddle with your boo, tonight.
I started reading this book called, "The Five Love Languages," by Gary Chapman. He writes about couples, understanding each others love languages. The Five Love Languages are: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. I know it sounds like one of those bullshit self-help books, but it actually makes sense. In the book, he writes, "A English speaking person, can not understand a Chinese speaking person, " the two do not speak different languages. He compares that statement with, individuals in relationships. If you love by spending, Quality Time and your partner loves by, Words of Affirmation, it is imperative, too understand how to love each other; spend time and give verbal appreciation. I am certain, there are other factors that play into achieving, "The Five Love Languages ," but I just started reading. I will definitely keep you guys posted, I look forward to the end, I'm hoping to learn something.
In the meantime, I think you should check it out on your own, as well. According to the reviews, it's a good read. The Author, Gary Chapman is a marriage counselor, he and his wife have been married for 35years; I'm certain that he knows what he's talking about. This is a book for every couple, whether you have your "love lock down," or it's on the rocks, you can certainly learn from it.
I purchased my copy at Borders for, $14.99. Check it out at http://www.amazon.com/Five-Languages-Love-Gary-Chapman. Buy it used for, as low as, $5.99. I saved you deals on wine, now on books. Yes, I am aware that I'm awesome.
So, even when your baby is not loving you, the way you want him or her too, keep you're love locked down.
Thanks for rocking with the best.
Peace,
A.
I started reading this book called, "The Five Love Languages," by Gary Chapman. He writes about couples, understanding each others love languages. The Five Love Languages are: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. I know it sounds like one of those bullshit self-help books, but it actually makes sense. In the book, he writes, "A English speaking person, can not understand a Chinese speaking person, " the two do not speak different languages. He compares that statement with, individuals in relationships. If you love by spending, Quality Time and your partner loves by, Words of Affirmation, it is imperative, too understand how to love each other; spend time and give verbal appreciation. I am certain, there are other factors that play into achieving, "The Five Love Languages ," but I just started reading. I will definitely keep you guys posted, I look forward to the end, I'm hoping to learn something.
In the meantime, I think you should check it out on your own, as well. According to the reviews, it's a good read. The Author, Gary Chapman is a marriage counselor, he and his wife have been married for 35years; I'm certain that he knows what he's talking about. This is a book for every couple, whether you have your "love lock down," or it's on the rocks, you can certainly learn from it.
I purchased my copy at Borders for, $14.99. Check it out at http://www.amazon.com/Five-Languages-Love-Gary-Chapman. Buy it used for, as low as, $5.99. I saved you deals on wine, now on books. Yes, I am aware that I'm awesome.
So, even when your baby is not loving you, the way you want him or her too, keep you're love locked down.
Thanks for rocking with the best.
Peace,
A.
Monday, October 05, 2009
OVER-THE-KNEE BOOTS, MINI DRESSES AND SKINNY JEANS
Here's the scoop ladies, the new boot for the Fall is the Over-the-Knee boot. The boot is super funky, very chic, you can rock with a cute mini dress or sytlish leggings. They're very edgy, and does'nt require much detail in an outfit and simple accesories. Check out Ciara, (see right) Over-The-Knee Boots, by Christian Louboutin; These are hot. They're an eyecatcher and her outfit is very chic and simple. I personally, would not have wore that shirt; it's too boxy, but you look gorgeous, CC. The trick about the Over-The-Knee Boot is, you must make sure they fit close to the leg, no gaping, that would be tacky ladies.
Over-The-Knee Boots are not the only must have item for the, Fall 2009. You must also have, Big Necklaces, A LBD, A Boyfriend Jacket, Studded Bags, Sparkly Cuffs, leggings, leggings, leggings and more leggings.....stripped leggings, bold leggings, colored leggings. Yes, be a total legging freak.
Mini shirts are also, a must have this Fall. Try them in different
shapes such as, straight and bubble-shaped. Mini's go best with tights in
the Falls, which you can find in various colors. Colors are fun all year around and they change with the season. Last, but not least, Skinny Jeans. You can never go wrong in a Skinny Jean and a pump. Feet cold ? Pair a Skinny Jean with a riding boot.
Stuart Weitzman, $675.00
This is FAB!
See www.TopShop.com
Sunday, October 04, 2009
BOWLING AND FINE DINING
Over the weekend, I took a trip to "Houston's Restaurant," located on Park Avenue, to find out, that they've changed their name to, "Hillstone Restaurant." This name change also, took place at the Boston location and other locations. I'm not a fan of the new name, but the food remains with the same excellent taste. The beau ordered me the Halibut fish, stuffed with crab meat and served with a side of wilted spinach. I really enjoyed it, the fish and the crab meat were fresh and the spinach was well-seasoned, it was very light, but filling. The beau, ordered his favorite, "The Classic French Dip, " which is, shaved prime rib on a toasted French roll served with au jus. Of course, we ordered "The Rockefeller," which is, the Spinach Artichoke Dip, as an appetizers. If you ever been to Houston's, I think you would agree that they have the BEST, Spinach Artichoke Dip. They also, added Sushi to their menu and I believe soups. The decor is the same, with the exception of a neon "Sushi" sign and for the first time, the wait was literally forty-five minutes. It was worth the wait, Houston's is one of my favorite restaurants, it's classy, not too pricey and they have good wine selection.
This weekend was a busy weekend, It was the beau and I anniversary, as well as, his Birthday. Friday, we went to Bowlmor Lanes, located at 110 University Place between 12th and 13th street; it was a good time. I brought a cake, we had one too many drinks and they also, had an adult carnival with "alcohol snowcones" upstairs from the bowling alley. It was really a good time, the beau and I really enjoyed ourselves. Prior to looking into Bowlmor Lanes, I was interested in Lucky Strikes, which is, another bowling alley. That interest quickly changed, when they explained to me, that there was a $30 service charge to cut the cake. WTF, really ?! It's already $18 to bowl and there is a dress code, how dare they add an extra fee to cut a cake ? I wouldn't recommend Lucky Strikes, as a first choice. Bowlmor Lanes, was just as fun and the staff is extremely nice and helpful.
If you're a New Yorker or plan on visiting, I highly recommend that you check out both places. "Hillstone Restaurant," formally known as, "Houston's," http://www.hillstone.com/ and Bowlmor Lanes and Strike at http://www.bowlmor.com/.
Stayed tuned for more hot spots......
Signing off,
A.
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
GIRL TALK
Welcome, if it's your first time rocking with me and Welcome back, if not. I would like to start off by thanking, all the people who replied to my email blast. The feedback was awesome, you guys made request for things that you'd like me to blog about. I will certainly, honor those request.
So, last night I had a lot work to do and that included, getting started on two Media Kits. I did manage to start both, and I actually finished Washington Roberts Bio and Fact sheet; Kudos, for that. I had a goodnight, work was good, as well. Anyway, the craziest thing happens again today, that's good ole New York City for you. Yesterday, I saw a homeless man, wearing yellow shorts steal a bike. Today, as I'm getting off the train, this huge ass rat runs near this woman and I. OMG, I was so f-king freaked out, I HATE RATS-they're really "The Untouchables," of Earth. I hope you guys payed attention in History class and know who, The Untouchables are (Lol). The rat just ran passed us, it was gross.
Tomorrow, is Thursday and that means either, I go to the Salon or The Spa. Luckily, for me the Salon and Spa are on the same street. I go to "Salon 804," in Harlem, New York. See their website, www.Squad804.com. I've been going to Salon 804 for a long time now, since they were at another location in Harlem. My beautician name was JerseeMonet, interestly enough, she use to be a singer. I guess, she had one hit ?...idk. Anyway, Jersee did my hair for a while, and when she left the shop, I followed her. However, after a while, Jersee and I relationship didn't work out, due to her lacking ability to style. I left Jersee and went back to 804 and the owner, Rochelle Mosley, became my new beautician. I pay for what I get, she uses top of the line products that work with my hair. One day my Dad said me, "you have to pay, how you weigh in there." That definitely is a true statement, my hair is $40 every two weeks, minus tips. When I need a relaxer, cut, and color, it can cost me up to, $120. Funny thing is, recession or not, I'm always going to pay it, because I have short haircut and I like to keep it styled. What do you expect ? I'm a lady and I like to take care of myself.
Salon 804 is not your advantage Salon. I would say that 90% of the clients are young African- American Professional. The client's are classy and always stylish. You can always expect to see what's hot, in fashion. I think it's great to see young women of color doing their thing. The "who of who's," get they're hair done there, Serena Williams and Judge Karen, are both client's of Rochelle. Their product list includes, Mizani, Paul Mitchell, Design, Bed Head and, more. I'm in love with the Mizani Butter Blend relaxer, it works like a charm. I recently purchased, Paul Mitchell, Extra Volume hairspray and a hair dress cream called, "Glo and Grow." "Glo and Grow," is really a funny name, it reminds me of "Soul Glo," from Eddie Murphy's, "Coming to America." Lol-Ridiculous. Anyway, it's work likes magic, it's excellent for dry hair. The products are up to $10 each, that's awesome, because these are products that you can not purchase in stores, including, Beauty Supply stores. On the Paul Mitchell hairspray, it reads, something about only buying the hairspray from a Professional Hairstylist, due to knockoff brands. So people are bootlegging hairspray now ? Really, is it that bad ?
The name of the Spa that I go to is called, "Toni Touch Day Spa." It is a full service salon meaning, they do everything from Manicures to Brazilians. The Spa is has 2- floors, the downstairs is for Mani's and Pedi's. The upstairs is for massages and waxing, they also do facials and body tanning. Anne, is my manicurist and the girl does a manicure like no one else in New York City-I promise you that! Make an appointment with her today.Their products include, OPI, Essie and China Glaze. My favorite summer color was, OPI, "Get in the Lime," it's a greenish color and it worked for me. Toni and Anne talked me into trying a China Glaze color called, "Shower Together," how sexy is that ? Instant message to your man, just wiggled your fingers Lol. It's a teal color and I got so many compliments on it, I liked it. I'm currently wearing my favorite color, OPI, "Lincoln Park after Dark." It's almost like a dark purplish-brown ? If that makes sense? Needless to say, I love it! It's a great Fall color. Check out the website at: www.ToniTouchDaySpa.com.
I also, checked out this spa in Brooklyn, also owned by a young Black Women called, "The Polish Bar." It has a cute pink decor, that reminds me of strawberry cupcakes. It has a "Make-up Bar", where you have your make-up done or purchase everything from lipstick to blush. The only thing The Polish Bar, does not offer are massages, I guess the Make-up Bar makes-up for that. I do enjoy their wide selection of brand polishes, which includes, YSL, Essie, OPI, China Glaze, and more. I tried a red color by YSL, it was almost the exact color of a candy apple and extremely glossy; that's a good polish. Visit the Polish Bar of Brooklyn website at: www.polishbarbrooklyn.com. It was worth a train ride to Brooklyn. I think there website should list the nail polish brands they use, because that's a benefit to their business. Many Spa's only have only OPI and Essie. They also do the Minx nails, which is like a film on your nail. Their website is advertising a promotion, $55 for a minx manicure, $65 minx pedicure.
How ironic is it that on the same street as 804 and Spa, another young African-American Women named Rashida, owns an A-list Shoe Source boutique called, "Bourgeoisie." Three Black Women owned businesses on the same street is BIG BUSINESS. That's inspiring and I'm thankful, that I can support and keep them in my community. "Bourgeoisie," sells high end names from Stewart Weitzman, Casadei, Devi Kroell, Giuseppe Zanotti, Lamb and more. I have a pair of Casadei Croc loafers from there, they are absolutely adorable and classic. See the Fall 2009 collection at: www.bourgeoisieshoes.com.
Signing off for the night, remember to always, keep it sexy.
Peace,
A.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
TRUE LIFE: I'M A PUBLIC RELATIONS PROFESSIONAL
Hello, hot people reading my blog.....today was a very long day, I had a tremendous amount of work. However, ya girl managed to get it done. So anyway, I'm sitting here listening to Trey Songz, who did an outstanding job on his album (Clap, clap, Bravo). I'm working on two Media Kits. One for a Fashion Designer named, Washington Roberts. Washington line is self-entitled and was started in Fall 2007. Check out his Spring 2009 fashion show @ www.picasaweb.google.com/washingtonroberts , its hot. The other Media Kit that I'm working on is a Brooklyn born, Harlem raised rap kid named, Stress. I must say the kidd is nice. Check him out rapping over Hov's DOA http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oEN4fX1drfQ .
A lot has happened within the course of two days , I've decided to "take action," and do some freelance PR work. I don't want to hold out too long and lose my talent. I'm excited about this, it's going to be something I enjoy and can earn extra income from-it works. I'll post some of my work so you guys can see it. I'm making progress in building up my PR Agency, ConcreteRose PR. I've been doing my research and all the good things I learned in College. I was thinking of posting ads for interns, to help built my client list. I also researched information on grants for small business owners. In order to get the grant, I'll need to explain how my agency benefits my community. I'm a persuasive writer, so that is going to be easy to do. So watch out for ConcreteRose PR, revamping PR at an event near you....
So listen to this, today I seen the funniest shit ever. I'm walking with my two co-workers after work, to the bank and we see this homeless guy with yellow shorts, stealing this bike, off the chain (excuse me, because I'm dying laughing) As he's stealing the bike, a Chinese girl comes out of the Deli and starts yelling, "Hey, that's that's my bike." The homeless guy was so determined to steal the bike, that he broke the kickstand off of it, trying to run LMAO-Hilarious. He pushed this lady and damn near knocked her down, as he attempted to get on the bike, it was a disaster. The girl was running so damn slow, that she had no chance of catching his ass. The funny thing about the entire situation is that the cops rode by while she was chasing him. They were in the last left line of the street, opposite the sidewalk and didn't see what was going on. I felt sorry for the chick, but that was the highlight of my day, a bum stealing a bike, wearing yellows shorts. Only in the Concrete Jungle, New York. He should have stole a pair of jeans, as cold as it was today. This is definitely flu weather, my job is mandating all employees to have both, the flu shot and the M1 ,H1 shot. I'm not too happy about this, because I've never had a flu vaccine in my 23yrs of living. Some people have claimed to become sick after they were vaccinated, so it's a tricky decision.
Btw while you're checking out Stress on Youtube, please check out Lil Mama, explaining why she rudely interrupted Jay-Z and A. Keys performance at the VMA's http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLzvH1qtszc&feature=related. Let me just say that her Publicist sucks, what kind of crisis management is that ? Her words were over exaggerated and she delayed her points. If nothing else, that was an awesome publicity stunt.
Kudos to me for keeping up with my blog! My co-worker told me that it looks great and I actually got her to start blogging. Follow her @ www.Kishabetterdays.blogspot.com. She said, I look different in all of my pictures, lol, I agree. That's the beauty of a rose, it blossoms ;)
I'm signing off , I have a lot on my agenda. I'm going to have a glass of this delicious wine that I purchased in Harlem, NY at this fab winery, which is called, "The Winery." It's incredibly cute and inexpensive, loved it. Check out the website, www.thewineryonline.com . If you're a red wine lover, I recommend the Aresti, Pinot Noir 2007. It's perfect in taste, pairs well with full-flavored fish, red meats and pasta. It's a $14 bottle with a $100 taste. See everything that starts with an "A" taste good. "How you doing?" (in the Wendy voice) Lol.
I'm out, follow me on Twitter coming soon, interested in having some PR work done email me @ Concreterosepr.com. Pricing available upon service request, packages are available-(This is not an attempt to solicit) LOL.
Thanks for rocking with the best.
Peace,
TheRealA**
A lot has happened within the course of two days , I've decided to "take action," and do some freelance PR work. I don't want to hold out too long and lose my talent. I'm excited about this, it's going to be something I enjoy and can earn extra income from-it works. I'll post some of my work so you guys can see it. I'm making progress in building up my PR Agency, ConcreteRose PR. I've been doing my research and all the good things I learned in College. I was thinking of posting ads for interns, to help built my client list. I also researched information on grants for small business owners. In order to get the grant, I'll need to explain how my agency benefits my community. I'm a persuasive writer, so that is going to be easy to do. So watch out for ConcreteRose PR, revamping PR at an event near you....
So listen to this, today I seen the funniest shit ever. I'm walking with my two co-workers after work, to the bank and we see this homeless guy with yellow shorts, stealing this bike, off the chain (excuse me, because I'm dying laughing) As he's stealing the bike, a Chinese girl comes out of the Deli and starts yelling, "Hey, that's that's my bike." The homeless guy was so determined to steal the bike, that he broke the kickstand off of it, trying to run LMAO-Hilarious. He pushed this lady and damn near knocked her down, as he attempted to get on the bike, it was a disaster. The girl was running so damn slow, that she had no chance of catching his ass. The funny thing about the entire situation is that the cops rode by while she was chasing him. They were in the last left line of the street, opposite the sidewalk and didn't see what was going on. I felt sorry for the chick, but that was the highlight of my day, a bum stealing a bike, wearing yellows shorts. Only in the Concrete Jungle, New York. He should have stole a pair of jeans, as cold as it was today. This is definitely flu weather, my job is mandating all employees to have both, the flu shot and the M1 ,H1 shot. I'm not too happy about this, because I've never had a flu vaccine in my 23yrs of living. Some people have claimed to become sick after they were vaccinated, so it's a tricky decision.
Btw while you're checking out Stress on Youtube, please check out Lil Mama, explaining why she rudely interrupted Jay-Z and A. Keys performance at the VMA's http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLzvH1qtszc&feature=related. Let me just say that her Publicist sucks, what kind of crisis management is that ? Her words were over exaggerated and she delayed her points. If nothing else, that was an awesome publicity stunt.
Kudos to me for keeping up with my blog! My co-worker told me that it looks great and I actually got her to start blogging. Follow her @ www.Kishabetterdays.blogspot.com. She said, I look different in all of my pictures, lol, I agree. That's the beauty of a rose, it blossoms ;)
I'm signing off , I have a lot on my agenda. I'm going to have a glass of this delicious wine that I purchased in Harlem, NY at this fab winery, which is called, "The Winery." It's incredibly cute and inexpensive, loved it. Check out the website, www.thewineryonline.com . If you're a red wine lover, I recommend the Aresti, Pinot Noir 2007. It's perfect in taste, pairs well with full-flavored fish, red meats and pasta. It's a $14 bottle with a $100 taste. See everything that starts with an "A" taste good. "How you doing?" (in the Wendy voice) Lol.
I'm out, follow me on Twitter coming soon, interested in having some PR work done email me @ Concreterosepr.com. Pricing available upon service request, packages are available-(This is not an attempt to solicit) LOL.
Thanks for rocking with the best.
Peace,
TheRealA**
Sunday, September 27, 2009
Flashing Lights:Ambitious A
Sunday, September 27, 2009
So I suck at blogging, I'm not keeping up with it and that goes back into my first blog about procrastinating. Last night the beau and I were just hanging out drinking and talking. He was playing Jay-Z's new album and a song called, "So Ambitious" was playing and my baby asked me if i was listening to the lyrics. It was my first time hearing it and I'm a fan of Jay, so I was listening and basically, in the song he talked about always living with ambition. So my baby said, babe, listen to what he's saying because it makes so much sense, you always have to live with ambitions and take action. If you have a dream to do something, you have to be willing to get to that point at any means necessary. He went on to compare that idea to me and my personal goals. I will take time to plan out what I want to do, but I don't follow through with those plans so it never becomes an action. In those situations that I do take action, I get comfortable and don't try to progress. I don't know what I'm lacking, maybe it's motivation. I know for a fact that I've become a bit discouraged in shit that I use to believe in. When I was younger, I never knew what I wanted to be, it was just a question that I struggle with. When people use to ask me, I'd always say a lawyer, but I was lying to myself and the people-I'm not a lawyer kind of chick lol. First and foremost I went to college, not by choice, but because I know, "we do what we have to do to do what we want to do" (Denzel Washington, "The Great Debaters). Anyway, when I was in High School, I was in this organization called, The Children Aid Society, shout out to them for the free book money. I use to go after school and they had a program called, Sistanet, where we would discuss young women topics. Each girl had a mentor and my mentor name was Olivia. Olivia was conservative in my opinion, but she kicked it to me like a real sista. She was very knowledgeable and had a warm personality. One day, Olivia asked me that dreadful question, but in the adult version, "what kind of career are you interested in." I thought to myself, "O fuck, here we go ago," I was 18 and I still didn't know what I wanted to be. I forced myself to believe a Lawyer, because I lied so many times lmao. Anyway, I don't remember what I said to Olivia, I don't remember answering lol.....(shrugging shoulders). Olivia told me that base on her observation of me, she think I would enjoy the Communication field. I thought about that before, but always felt like I had to become something like a Doctor or a Lawyer. When I was 15, I interned at Bad Boy and that sparked my interest in entertainment industry. So I asked Olivia, what could I do that mixed both Communication and Entertainment. That's the first day I got introduced to Public Relations. She explained the basics to me, I did some research and I was all about it, from that day I now knew what I wanted to be when I grew up. Needless to say, I graduated High School, the program ended, I took Olivia's contact information. I majored in Communication focusing on Public Relations, I graduated, came home and begin job hunting. One day, I was going through some old paperwork and I found Olivia's number. I believe I only spoke to her once while I was in College. We spoke on the phone and caught up, I told her I was looking for a job in PR. She said she knew some people, I gave her a copy of my resume, we revamped it and eventually, I did get a job, but not in PR. I had to send my resume out to every PR firm there is, I revised it several thousand times, I made follow-up calls, I exhausted myself. One day, I was even bold enough to walk inside of the Baby Phat and Phat Farm office and damn near demanded a interview with my resume in hand. That's when I had ambition, I was determined, I was a beast, I felt fearless. I knew that I had my shit together and someone had to hire me. PR was what I wanted to do, I'm a smart chick, I envisioned myself being a great Publicist for people like Kanye, who always seems to need crisis management. It just never happened, I moved on, I got a little depressed, I was frustrated, it was one of those "wtf moments" forreal. I begin regretting going to College, I felt like I went to pay back loans for an education that wasn't efficient enough to land me in the career that I wanted. Furthermore, I moved on and fell out of love with PR, I remember writing in my journal, "fuck em all" lol, it was like a bad break-up. I moved out from my parents, got an apartment, and I've worked as a Medical Secretary for an Ob/Gyn Doctor ever since. I worked at my job for a little over year and I'm grateful; I'm 23, I have my own place, a job, my own independence, I have nice things and doesn't hurt that I'm a nice arm look....okay, okay, I got something going for myself, but it wasn't until that conservation with my baby, that made me realize that I'm comfortable. I'm not making any moves, I look for jobs here and there online, but that's not good enough; I need ambition. I need that walk into any office with confidence attitude back. I have 2 portfolios, that I put together my Senior year in College, they're both Media Kits, I need to do something with them. I worked hard as hell on both pieces and I need to take pride in my work, it's just dusting. Nike has a ad that reads, "Yesterday you said today, Just do it," whoever wrote that must know me personally, because that shit describes me to the T lol.....So with all of that said, today I become "Ambitious A"-how corny is that lol, but seriously I'm going to start making moves.I got what I payed for in College, a textbook and a lecture, the rest is my responsibility, it's fucked up, but so are a lot of other things. This is part of being an adult; it's time to woman up. If no one in PR wants to give me a job, I'll just have to thug my way thru it. Jay said it best, "can't complain about what they ain't gon' give ya, that ain't gon' get ya shit-mind as well, give up." My baby told me, he wants his children not only to be able to look at their father and say "Daddy gets in it," but also look at their Mom and say the same.....don't worry Daddy, Mommy will get it in.....
Stay Tuned.....I got next.
Peace,
A.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
The Blogger Virgin
Mmmm.....I guess I should start off by saying hello ?! It is 12:52am on Sept 17. 2009, and I decided that I want to start blogging. Actually for a while i've wanted to take a shot at it, but I have a tendency of procastinating; but, thats too be discussed later on....I entitled my blog "The 20's Travels" because, I intend to write about my day to day as a 23yr old, college grad, in a recession and health care reform....I graduated in Communication, focusing on Public Relation. Had I known we were going to be in a recession, i would have went to school to be a damn MD...Lol. Seriously, this shit is out of hand, ever since I turned 20, life has been moving quickly and shit got real. I had a lot of goodtimes in this short time of being in my 20's, i also had a lot of bad times, but those stories are too be continued....Thank you for checking for ya gurl, read on....
Peace, A
Peace, A
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